I just got off work and I have a major headache...
You ever see something as one thing but someone else sees it completely different? You ever want something so bad and work really hard to earn it only to find your work was in vain? Ever been hurt? I know I'm being really vague... I've been thinking alot about my relationships with people... and I just don't know... I mean you never know right, unless they tell you how they view you... I mean you could view someone as your associate and they see you as their best friend in the whole wide world... what would that do to them if you told them you didn't think they were your friend, if you had the guts to tell them?
What is a friend? What is the meaning of the word? What is the purpose of friendships? How do you know when someone has become a friend? How does it sound to say (ok, you've passed the test, you can be my friend now...)? Doesn't it just happen? Then why do we have to define relationships? Why does this sound so complicated?
Disclaimer: I've been thinking about these things for a while and this blog is not the result of one particular situation or events but of what my life has been like...
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I've had people to tell me I wasn't hanging out enough to qualify as a friend and stupid crap like that. Like, they made me feel guilty for the time I didn't spend with them. I had to choose, we are either best friends or nothing. People are so complicated!
I hardly ever hang with my best friend... we say we need to get together because we miss each other... but our distance doesn't define our relationship... even if it is just the fact that she lives on west campus and I on main... People are freakin complicated...
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